thoughtful thursday

at the end of the long distance phone call with my far away friend a week previous, she said, "you are the only one who understands me".  others have said that to me so it wasn't the first time that sentiment has reached my ears.  as i traveled to my destination last friday, that statement was pondered for many miles.  it occurred to me that being "the only one who understands me" type of person really doesn't have as much to do with any particular, mysterious talent as much as the willingness to listen.  being a good listener is an amazing gift to offer to others.  it's a gift i am pleased to be able to share.